You’d think being a third wheel would get old, right? But after witnessing 50+ weddings a year — side by side with lovers promising forever — it’s anything but dull. As a wedding photographer, I don’t just snap pretty moments. I stand inside some of the most intimate, chaotic, joyful, and sacred slices of life. And somewhere between adjusting veils and wiping my own mascara tears, I’ve realised: this job is a front-row seat to human connection in its rawest form. Here’s what it’s really like to live in the middle of other people’s love stories — all while holding space, telling truths, and capturing magic with a camera in hand.
A Front-Row Seat to Love Stories
Unlike your typical third wheel situation, my role means I’m there with permission and purpose. I get to watch couples in love, families connecting, and friends celebrating—all from a front-row seat. Every wedding is a new story, full of unique personalities, traditions, and surprises. And I get to be the one who freezes those memories in time.
The Good, the Laughs, and the Tears
Weddings aren’t just about stunning dresses and fancy venues. They’re about the little moments—the dad wiping away a tear, the couple stealing a quiet kiss behind the scenes, or the hilarious dance moves that no one expected. As a third wheel, I get to see the laughter, the nerves, the excitement, and the deep emotions that make weddings so unforgettable.
No Pressure, Just Enjoy the Ride
One of the best parts about being a third wheel at weddings is that I’m not in the spotlight—I’m behind the camera, capturing the candid and real. That means I get to be a fly on the wall, blending in while still being a part of the magic. It’s a front-row pass to joy, and I love every second of it.
Witnessing the Beautiful Chaos
If you think weddings are smooth and perfect, think again. There’s always some chaos—last-minute changes, little mishaps, and unpredictable moments. But that’s what makes each wedding uniquely beautiful. Being the third wheel means I’m there to capture the moments that are often missed but make the story complete.
Forming Connections Beyond Photos
Over time, many couples become more than clients—they become friends. I’m lucky to be invited back for anniversaries, baby photos, and milestones. Being a third wheel means I get to build genuine connections, and that’s what makes this job so special.
Why Being a Third Wheel is the Best Job Ever
At the end of the day, being the third wheel at weddings means being trusted to tell stories through images. It’s about capturing the love, the joy, and the real moments that last a lifetime. I’m not just a photographer—I’m a memory maker, a storyteller, and yes, the best third wheel you’ll ever meet.
Ready to Have Your Story Told?
Every couple lets me into their world for one of the biggest days of their life — and that’s not something I take lightly. If you’re planning a day that feels more like you and less like a Pinterest board, I’d be honoured to be your third wheel, too. Ready to create something honest, heart-filled, and a little bit wild together?
